Post by sylvadragon on Dec 15, 2008 6:19:00 GMT -5
I guess my advise would be to take things slow at least for a while. Spend time with him, see how things go. If he only just got out of a relationship he might be feeling pretty confused, that's why it's maybe good not to rush things, and just see what happens.
Maybe if you know him well enough you could talk to him about the break up with his ex, that might let you see how he still feels about her, and how he feels about you. A lot of guys don't like to talk about things like that though. So, you'd have to be careful not to push too hard, and to back off if he seems unwilling to talk.
If you give it a few more weeks and just enjoy spending time with him, then you might be able to pick up on little hints about how he feels, and you could always try talking to him in a few weeks if you're still not sure. I really hope my advise is good, and that things work out for you.
True love often begins as friendship by the way.
Maybe if you know him well enough you could talk to him about the break up with his ex, that might let you see how he still feels about her, and how he feels about you. A lot of guys don't like to talk about things like that though. So, you'd have to be careful not to push too hard, and to back off if he seems unwilling to talk.
If you give it a few more weeks and just enjoy spending time with him, then you might be able to pick up on little hints about how he feels, and you could always try talking to him in a few weeks if you're still not sure. I really hope my advise is good, and that things work out for you.
True love often begins as friendship by the way.
