i dunno what to do..

[emeraldeyes]

Okay. So when me and Micah (my boyfriend) kissed, we thought it was fine. Our parents..well, not so much. So last night i suggested that maybe, during sunday school and stuff, we tone down the hand holding and such, just a bit. And today, during sunday school, i didn't hold his hand. in fact, whenever he touched me, I was internally saying "please get away from me. don't touch me." and so...I guess I dunno what to do. I think I still like him, but.. I just..wanted nothing to do with him, almost! I have no CLUE what it is, but most of me wanted to just scoot away. However, as i chose to sit on the END of a couch, he kinda cornered me, and i couldn't scoot anymore..what should i do?!? i mean...someone out there HAS to have SOME adivce..please!! i have no idea what to do. i'd greatly appreciate any suggestions, and i'd lobe you forever.. *kate*

[jenn]

I could give you advice but it all depends..like, I'd hae to say this..but really, how old you are. Like, I mean, you're either young enough where its like "that's alright, you're still young and don't need to rush yourself." but if you're old enough to do that sort of thing and have a boyfriend then it's well "that's your choice, you're old enough now where you can do those sort of things and you don't need to feel guilty just because your parents dont approve!"

[Mellypoo622]

If you feel that uncomfortable with him being around you with your parents maybe you too should talk it out. Tell him how you feel about that and maybe he'll cool it down a bit when your parents are around. I'm not much on love advice but maybe that could help.

[emeraldtabby]

FYI: double think before ever taking my advice...for about anything...

if I was in your position i would tell him i was uncomfortable with what he was doing, because if he respected me, he would respect my wishes as well.

[amandahleigh]

Is the problem that he's making you uncomfortable, or that your parents are? You said you were fine with kissing him, but your parents were not, so you want to tone it down. Have you properly explained all this to him? It can be very confusing for a teenage boy to have a girlfriend who likes him and kisses him and holds his hand, and then suddenly won't sit next to him on the couch. Make sure he knows how and what you feel, rather than confusing him and letting it put a strain on your 'relationship.'

:-)

Good luck!

AL