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Post by StormAngel on Sept 19, 2007 21:24:23 GMT -5
On my forum, there are two members who keeps bickering. As one is my friend and the other is someone who I don't know, I really have no idea how to tell them to stop. AND, that person who I count as a friend is disagreeing with everything that the other person says without reason and not respecting her opinion... Can some one help?? I'm getting really pissed at their unreasonable arguements...
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Post by EloquentPhoenix on Sept 20, 2007 1:50:16 GMT -5
Hmmm. Perhaps just take your role as admin, send them both a serious PM expressing your concerns over their bickering and make it clear you expect that to be an end to it?
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Post by mmadlyinlove on Sept 21, 2007 23:13:46 GMT -5
Gee I wish I could help but I'm not that good when it comes to situations like this. ~mmadlyinlove~
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Post by McGonagallsGirl on Sept 21, 2007 23:42:15 GMT -5
We're so lucky, this board rarely bickers.
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Post by StormAngel on Sept 21, 2007 23:48:19 GMT -5
yup.. I love this board... We don't bicker so much. =)
EloquentPhoenix, I took your advice. I hope they would really stop arguing now... How much can you argue over the Advancement of Technology and global warming?? I don't really get it...
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Post by EloquentPhoenix on Sept 22, 2007 13:26:27 GMT -5
How can you argue about that? A good debate certainly but argue? Why?
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Post by StormAngel on Sept 23, 2007 8:17:53 GMT -5
*raises hands in air* Don't ask me... My friend thinks that she's right... and the other person got pissed because she and I got called idiots. Then came the horrible debate over the use of chatspeak. I didn't want to get involved, but somehow after reminding my friend about the rule about the usage of chatspeak, I got targeted too...  |
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Post by EloquentPhoenix on Sept 23, 2007 17:11:35 GMT -5
Pull rank. You're the admin, you're allowed to. Rules are rules. Be strong  It's horrible when there's conflict. Tell them point blank to stop it or take it off your board. |
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Post by StormAngel on Sept 25, 2007 8:23:21 GMT -5
=) Thanks for the advice. I did that and they stopped arguring. At last. xD I thought I was going to die with both of them arguing like that.
btw, has anyone experianced severe irritation caused by a friend who laughs at other people's religion? How am I supposed to handle this? I don't really get how to diplomatically tell my so called friend that you shouldn't be doing that as it is just plain rude...
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It's horrible when there's conflict. Tell them point blank to stop it or take it off your board.