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Post by fallingmoon on Jun 28, 2008 10:51:28 GMT -5
Ok, my boyfriend's grandma is a really religious lady and a I've known her since I was born. Well, just this morning she told me I needed to move on with my life and date a more Godly boy. I really love my boyfriend and I can't just break up with him. I know he's done a lot of stupid things but he makes me feel happy and loved. I'm kinda mad at his grandma though, and I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice they could give me? Please and thank you.
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Post by Pingpongfreak on Jun 28, 2008 13:52:47 GMT -5
Maybe just tell his grandma that you'd rather stick it out with her grandson. She is probably generally thinking about you if she's telling you to move on, if you've known her for that long then I don't think she'd be trying to sabotage your relationship with your boyfriend. You said you know he's done a lot of stupid things but you can get past it; tell her that. Maybe if she sees that you will love him unconditionally, you might receive more of a blessing from her.
Just what I would do. But I don't know your situation that well, so I could be WAY off.
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Post by fallingmoon on Jun 28, 2008 15:42:00 GMT -5
Thanks, I might try that. I was upset when she told me this. When I got home from her place, I cried. She didn't say why she thought her grandson wasn't right for me, but then again, he's gotten in A LOT of trouble with his family and stuff like that.
My head hurts with confusion. *sigh* There's not much I can do but take one day at a time
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Post by Mrs Edward Cullen on Jun 28, 2008 19:15:52 GMT -5
ok here is my issue: What kind of grandmother tells a person to breakup with their grandchild? yeah she might have been thinking of you but if she was then she shouldn't have said anythin because you obv. love him and make eachother happy. here is what i think you should do: sit down and have a talk with her. tell her calmly thank you for careing but i won't break up with your grandson. i love him, he loves me and we make eachother happy. then ask her why she thinks you two should break up. when sh eanswers then tell her your oppions on those reasons. try to persuade her to see you pov. wow that was prety good for me, if it was me which it never will be cause i will never have a boyfriend, i would try that and if it didn't work i would prob start an argument. lol. but i don't suguest you do that. hope that helps. good luck.
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