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Post by Mrs Edward Cullen on Dec 29, 2008 18:04:39 GMT -5
IDK what to do anymore. My cousine Noelle is the worst right now. I am the one in the family who is into fashion, acting, singing, and being a girl; she on the other hand iis the opposite of me a complete tomboy. But as of this year she is taking over the things i am good at. like last week she called me and told me all about a modeling job she got where out of 300 people she was one of the 40 picked. yes i am Jealous i will admit it. I just don't know what to do anymore. It now seams like she has to be good at everything and i am a nobody. i do plays in school and ever since my first show i have gotten a main role (not the lead but still a main) but now in comparison to her that accomplishment seams like nothing. The only thing that i am better at than her is in school and singing but i fear that she will soon try and take that from me as well.
idk any advice?
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Post by Gifted on Dec 30, 2008 1:55:41 GMT -5
First off, it's normal and perfectly human to be jealous. There's nothing wrong with it unless we act on this emotion.
Is she purposely doing this in order to make you jealous? Just wondering, do you and Noelle usually get along or do you fight?
Well, if you guys usually get along, there is a possibility you might be reading to much into it. Sometimes people doesn't realize that they might be bragging or trying to say they are better than someone. I have a friend who does that and doesn't even realize it half the time.
BUT if you are usually at each others' throats, my best advice would be to ignore her. She's just trying to get you angry and irritated. Don't give her the satisfaction.
Either way though, remember that you are unique and special in every way. Your talents and interests make up who you are. Even if some one else is good at your talent, chances are you are going to met people like that in life anyway. I'm sorry if it sounds corny, but just keep doing what you do best and be proud of your work. When you're satisfied with your hard work, you'll find the jealous monster won't be as bad.
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Post by Mrs Edward Cullen on Dec 30, 2008 11:20:45 GMT -5
Thanks that is good advice. and your question do we fight or get along? it depends on how long we are together. lol after about 2 hours we are ready to kill eachother. And now she is doing it again. I am a huge Twilight fan, to say the least i am obsesed. As many know Twilight is a chick flic not really her thing. she is into blood and gore movies not romance. But now she is suddenly into Twilight as well but only after i said how much i loved it. ugh i can't wait to go to college and be more successful than her. i want to be a lawyer and she wants to be a photographer (she isn't even that good) We'll see who makes it farther in the world.
wow it fells really good to let all my anger out like this and nobody gets hurt. lol
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Post by Gifted on Jan 1, 2009 4:22:50 GMT -5
That's really weird about the Twilight thing. I admit it does sound like she's purposefully trying to annoy you. Anyway, I bet you're going to make an awesome lawyer! I'm glad you're letting out the anger in this way. I've found this way helps me too.
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